Hangout and having Fun....(^^,)

well yesterday i didn't plan to go out anywhere. Then shamyza n hanna on9 with me...biasalah us, jumpa dah begila, apalagi MSN..though na nampak muka diorang..keke~we actually plan kan menarik... then na jadi..hangout aja la kami..hehe shamyza wanna go to Kianggeh, Simply Shaz... coz she kan rasa the foods....i try to contact faiz, but i cant reach em..them befikir lah..how to contact em..i try to call both of his line pun still the same..

atlast tepaksa oso lah i langgar umah c Faiz..wen we sampai konon nya i kuar n knock the door..skali gues wat, c faiz yg buka pintu..then there goes our conversation,

Dieja: bah laju jalan..

Faiz: ah..kan kemana?

Dieja: hm, menarik..bah lakas, coz hanna n shamyza menunggu dah ni..

Faiz: cana bleh ko janji sama durg..?

Dieja: On9...?

Faiz: Malaz ku..aku balum ready n alum g mandi..beminyak kan muka ku..

Dieja: aku sama jua kali..simple aje...hehe

Faiz: Bah, tngu japs..aku bersiram dulu...

fuh at last, faiz sed skajap lah...but i tunggu ya mandi..ya ain lamanya..kalah wah puteri mandi..cheh..hehe then keluar lah c faiz dari umah nya n bawa kasut2 nya ke kereta..i mean kasutnya keke~ kononnya we kan withdraw $$$ coz tat time i only av $3 dalam my wallet~sigh~ n our destination betambah lah lagi before ke simply shaz..sinz ia otw to kianggeh, we stop by at Chunghwa for baiduri ATM..sadly the atm is no longer available..gosh, which means i av to go sumwer else to withdraw..and the closest is yayasan..

well as you all know payah sikit la....wer we have to make a big round disana.. coz if kan parking pun, skajap jua saja.. me n faiz kuar lah..n kononnya kan check our allowance tarus whether kuar or nda.. ~sigh~ [alum lagi keluar our allowance] hehe

atlast baru lah we ol sampai ke simply shaz..n wen we arrived shamyza n her fiancee & Hanna baru siap makan..we kononnya exhausted dari awal coz banyak singgah pun order lah makanan..hehe but the hangout was fun tho..biasalah us, if jumpa with shamyza n hanna..sampai tak ingat dunia..hehe "Dunia itu aku yg punya"..hehe bising lah kami tawa2..n yg jadi mangsa kami, c Faiz hs..cian em..we nyaya em habis- habisan...walaupun ia diam..hehe

Dzen bro sham ngusut kn balik..hehe [marah ni krg c shamyza]..so hanna & shamyza pun chow lah..as for us masih lagi disana awyl..then we went to ripas...lawat my nenek..lama oso us there, then around 10ish we jalan ke TK gadong..unluckily the gang was not there..so we change plan n confirmlah menarik d mamih beribi..lamalah us there..like until 1 ish wa..(^^,) then balik umah lh coz aher dah.. wen i reach hom, i mandi subuh..keke~ [ ngam kah tu?] hehe then switch on lappy..

tarus on9 kan i..hehe i 0n9 with someone..it was fun sampai til we din notice it was late...like extremely late..keke~ macam majal kan na mo tido..hehe then the end..ZzZzZzZzZ

Am I in Love?Are U in Love?

Hm, will be discussing about this matter..how can you actually tell that you're in LOVE?..Frankly speaking, it is a really hard question to answer..but yeah, we're just discussing about it ryt? Typical scenario happen in Love. Some people may fall in and out of Love quickly and some people may think its hard while some others are never really in Love as much as they desire at the first place. But yeah, u all know that different people have different perception about Love.

But surely, it can get confusing when we are still a teen because romantic love is somewhat a new concept for teens and we don't know what to expect. basically at first, teens are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures..(cinta baru lah katakan ;p).. Trust me..it is!! HEe anyway, What do u think Love is? why do u want a romantic relationship? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? Why do you guys break up? Y?Y?Y? These questions can't be easily answered.

hm..well it maybe because of The love feeling.."LUST"...it is a very powerful, very intense feeling of attraction to another person. Usually we lust after people that we don't really know ans still we feel comfortable fantasizing about it. it is really common for people to get confuse..but why? why the feeling and Love make people so easy to mix up? hm, Lust is about physical attraction and acting only on Physical attraction. But LOVE is about much more than that. And yet many people get confuse to an attraction for some sort of blissful love..Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that.

generally Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and also trust. When you are in love, as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Like i have mention before, love is not about jealousy, not conflict, not about testing. love has a positive feeling and if it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity, then it is not a real love but shows that it is FAKE..just a pale copy..keke~

Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow.

How can we actually tell that we are in Love?There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with below statements you are probably in love.

1. hm..u actually know because you have been told by someone in you..your significant other that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2. The object of your liking makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If/when you feel jealous it is always momentary; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel as peaceful when you and your partner are together.
5. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7. Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
8. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.

How To Love?

As you all know that Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most of us will face, though not all of us did. Love is the continual act of unconditionally putting the needs of others before your own.

Steps:-

• Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", say it with a desire to show someone that you really love them. The Important thing is that when you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.(well yea depends on what is it;p)
  
• Empathize. lets think yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than imposing your own expectations or attempt to control your partner, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are; and realize how they could also love you back just as well.
• Love unconditionally. lets make simple and straight, love them the way they are, not the way they looks.what important is what u all think of their heart.If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
• Expect nothing in return. since u all love them because if them, so be with them for the sake of love, not because you have to or their looks OR their richness. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
• Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.