As you all know that Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most of us will face, though not all of us did. Love is the continual act of unconditionally putting the needs of others before your own.
Steps:-
- Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", say it with a desire to show someone that you really love them. The Important thing is that when you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.(well yea depends on what is it;p)
- Empathize. lets think yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than imposing your own expectations or attempt to control your partner, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are; and realize how they could also love you back just as well.
- Love unconditionally. lets make simple and straight, love them the way they are, not the way they looks.what important is what u all think of their heart.If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
- Expect nothing in return. since u all love them because if them, so be with them for the sake of love, not because you have to or their looks OR their richness. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
- Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.
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