Hm, will be discussing about this matter..how can you actually tell that you're in LOVE?..Frankly speaking, it is a really hard question to answer..but yeah, we're just discussing about it ryt? Typical scenario happen in Love. Some people may fall in and out of Love quickly and some people may think its hard while some others are never really in Love as much as they desire at the first place. But yeah, u all know that different people have different perception about Love.
But surely, it can get confusing when we are still a teen because romantic love is somewhat a new concept for teens and we don't know what to expect. basically at first, teens are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures..(cinta baru lah katakan ;p).. Trust me..it is!! HEe anyway, What do u think Love is? why do u want a romantic relationship? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? Why do you guys break up? Y?Y?Y? These questions can't be easily answered.
hm..well it maybe because of The love feeling.."LUST"...it is a very powerful, very intense feeling of attraction to another person. Usually we lust after people that we don't really know ans still we feel comfortable fantasizing about it. it is really common for people to get confuse..but why? why the feeling and Love make people so easy to mix up? hm, Lust is about physical attraction and acting only on Physical attraction. But LOVE is about much more than that. And yet many people get confuse to an attraction for some sort of blissful love..Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that.
generally Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and also trust. When you are in love, as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Like i have mention before, love is not about jealousy, not conflict, not about testing. love has a positive feeling and if it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity, then it is not a real love but shows that it is FAKE..just a pale copy..keke~
Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow.
How can we actually tell that we are in Love?There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with below statements you are probably in love.
- hm..u actually know because you have been told by someone in you..your significant other that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
- The object of your liking makes you feel special and good about yourself.
- If/when you feel jealous it is always momentary; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
- Nothing makes you feel as peaceful when you and your partner are together.
- When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
- Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
- Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
- You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
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