How To Forget your Ex??

Well, its been an issues about forgetting Ex's is very hard thing to do.. There will be a tips on how to forget your ex..it you yourself has to make an effort on forgetting the past.

Since you all or maybe most of people experienced the feeling when breaking up with your partners. The first thing you should do is to accept the "FACT" or "REALITY" that your Love for him/her is going nowhere. It may take some time for you all to recover, depending on how serious your relationship was. But the sooner you accept the fact that you are no longer with him/her, and the fact that your partner is not coming back, the sooner you can begin to move on with your life.

Next. stop looking at their photographs and other thing that may remind you of them. If you are the type of person who remember the memory when seeing the things that have been given to you, one way is to throw out anything that your ex gave you. Those things may bring back memories that you don't want to remember. But you just seeing a stuff as a stuff, just let it be.. when comes to think about it, don't you guys think it is such a waste to throw or give back things that suppose to be yours??..anyway, decision is in your hand..

MOreover, you can just remove his/her phone number from your phone book and recent call list, The most important thing for you not to do is, DO not call your Ex, or Text them or E=mail them. If your Ex call you, Don't answer or reply their text messages.

Then, to forget them..you can call your friends and hang out with them. Keep your friend close,and i am sure your friends can cheer you up. They are your friends for a reason and they are here to help. Spend time in places where you can meet interesting new people and make new friends.

Plus, you can also make a list of things that you love and hate about your Ex..Well obviously going to be more on negative ones. So Whenever you miss them or you're feeling attracted to your Ex again, go over that list.

To make things work, its better to avoid from your Ex. Just Incase you guys run into each other at the same place, try to leave the place as soon as possible. but if it is not possible, just say "HI" and ask about their work. BUt remember, DON'T talk about your past relationship. Your Ex is probably trying to get over you as well.

Think of all things you can do now that you are single. You can also find something productive to do - and then do it. Alternatively, you can work hard and focus on your career. Work can be a great distraction.

And when you are ready, date other people.

As you all know that these were just some tips on how to forget about your ex. Well, anyone can use in any kind of relationship, no matter how long or short it lasted. Just for reminder, not every tip will work for you. In fact, none of them may work, or all of them could work.Either way, as long as you are able to get your Ex off your mind, then you will enjiy your day..

nytez with my darlz...

Nytez with My DarLz

As you all know, my Darlz for 'Menihi' is Max, Faiz-Hs, Hanna and Shamyza. Hm, LAst nyt all of us went to Mamih Kiulap for Tea Tarikz'ing.hEe HAnna And Shamyza Text Me up and we have to meet up at Ahan Thai Bandar at 5 ish for Menihi. I sed the car will be available around 5 ish omoz 6..[ Kreta kana pakai keraja..hehe]..and hanna is ok with it n hanna ask me to pik Faiz up..tarus bawa menihi..coz Faiz hs we OL punya Boss Kali ah..without em, sunyi lah hari-hari kami..ahakz..

i Get ready and everything and siap around 7 catulah..n cian Hanna av to wait for us..[ Sorry hanna, nda sengaja...(^^,)] then hanna Text me up g and meet up di Mamih Qlap coz hanna n shmyza c ahan thai dari patang..then, at the moment i wanted to leave the house..Mummy tanya me lah.."KAn kemana?"..i sed, " KAn MEn Teh tarikZ sama durang Faiz, HAnna and the Gang"..then mummy panggil mamam..i sed "sokay, kami kan ke kadai makan jua ni..hehe"..[ stat lah mummy pot pet pot pet pasal i nda mamam di rumah]..just to make her stop talking...i makan lah..hehe afta tat tarus zoom ambil Faiz and av to singgah awyl di Lambak then go straight to MAmih Qlap..sampai ja kat sana, i saw hanna n shamyza..keke~ shamyza kan chow cha jua..aww..jap oso her..hehe[prasan nya i..padahal, i yang aher..keke~] Then we ol creta2 lah...n seperti biasa begambar atu nda tinggal..[Hanna punya kraja tu kan pose saja] hehe be bising seperti dunia itu kami yang punya haha MAcam2 lah cerita kami..we talk abou life, we talk about school...ntah apakah lagi..for sho banyak lah creta kami..hehe sampai we guys ternampak sumthin di mamih haha hanya Faiz n HAnna yg tau..haha..ktawa wah we guys meliat...plus we melaser ish the waitress dekat mamih lagi..we got annoyed by one of the waitress there..for sure, no customer service..bleh lagi time ia serve out tea tarik macam kan trabang lagi inda our tea tarik..hehe i kno la brunei tu dekat, jan tah trabangkan tea tarik kami..tak payah susah2 kan diri..hehe nah..i got carried away cha plang...

apalagi me and faiz, me laser ish lah kami..well..in a good way lah..nda plang tarus di serbu..haha.." ato Banaa"..keke~ then we bla..bla..bla..until 10 ish i tink..afta tat send HAnna n Faiz home..hehe

p/s:will update the pic soon..huhu

Quite Shock With The Surprise

sowy..BAru tah te update tiz story..HEe

well, last two days..ME and HAnna Decided To jalan2 ish..since holiday JUst started..{YeaY...YeaY...} [ Kira Kes Baru Update La Tu HEe] at first HAnna want ME to accompany Her to Empire For PhotoShooT..kali Cancelled..KEke~ CiaN c HAnna, HArap- HArapan[ Nda JA HUdz?] anywy, Since The PLan Cancelled We OL MEnihi lah in which I PRoMise To piK up HAnna at 5...Den i sed 5 ish Cha Lage..at LAst I Datang n JEmputz HAnna 5:40..Keke~ Kira I Buat Muka Seposen LA tu [ KEs na mau KAna Laser ish Leh C HAnna]..

Once she got in the car, i ask er.." KAn MEnihi di Mana ni?"..She Sed, " NTah Dij..NDa KU TepikiR"..den i sed LAgi..."Aduh...aku Suruh Ko fikir..haha yatah KU aga Ko aher atu..haha "..

At LAst we Decided to go to Aneka Rasa Kiulap....apa LAgi Us..MEnarik lah KAmi.." Tea Tarik Ping Dua ah.." Sed Dieja n HAnna..keke~ KAli HAnna Order Roti Kawin $1..n Dieja JELEs la JUa.." Hm, $2 lah k"...We Guys Creta2 La...NTah nda i Tau apa Aje yg Kami ceritakan..Hari- HAri Jumpa wa, Pun na aBis wa Creta KAmi ah..haha QUite awyl pulang we wait for OUr Roti Kawin.. then the Roti kawin sampai.."hM???"..teNganga LA me n Hanna Sebentar..

Dieja: Roti KawiN ka..Roti BUrger Ni..keke~

HAnna: NTah Dij, MAcam Roti BURger plg usulnya...

Dieja: awu pulang...Bulat pulang rotinya ku liat..hehe

Hanna: MAkan aja dij..haha

~sigh~ we shud have taken the pic of Roti KAwin Circle atu..keke~ I find it Funny tho...hehe after chit chatting around 1 hr plus[ i tink]..we wonder dimana c Faiz masani..Try to call em, Kana Reject..[ tsk..tsk..tsk...] rupanya he call balik..hehe wah..save jua Credit I tu..hehe [ KEs Karit Credit la tu, Alowance Alum KUar hehe] den he sed masani ia di BEar Hill..hahaha n bla bla bla bla..in a foNe dah na Branti becakap, apalagi if kami jumpa face to Face..Keke~ he sed he kan Join..we tunggu em la..he sed he'l reach kiulap at 8..KAmi tnggu lah, n b4 tat kami nyaya'ing em dulu..HAha afta Faiz sampai, we sed round2 tah dulu di Seri KiuLap MALL..Kali Dey sed " Bah..! MAna aja.." hehe

Qlap MALL

Banyak nya Teman2 yg kMi Jumpa..mE n Faiz tejumpa X schoolmate time secondary skewl...chit chat awyl..den jalan..sinz Faiz nda Sampat menihi, we then plan to menihi di Blue Eden..

Blue Eden ( Kiulap)

we Went To Blue Eden Kiulap n ordered Coke n Longan..Size XXL kami ORder..ahakz..prasan oso us kan abizkan the drinks... as usual bila us dah bejumpa, begambar atu nda tinggal [ walaupun pakai Fone aje..keke~] BAru sampai ja, baru ja us Keluar kreta tarus wa me n Hanna begambar.hehe Faiz sit beside me, Where HAnna sit beside MAx..i mean opposite plang saja..hehe me n Faiz begambar2 la..c hanna jeles.." ai..aku mau jua begambar.." we sed..." bah kemari plang"..then HAnna move beside us..n the Trio start with their own pose..baru jua we senyum kan begambar...suddenly ada flash wa..[tekezut jua i tu] haha rupanya MArriz n Hiero rempuh masuk n took out Pic..hehe Sinz Faiz sit in the Middle, me n HAnna cover our face rah c Faiz...hehe [ wah..panas nya i ketika itu menahan Malu..keke~]we got Busted!! haha nada wa...we tekazut ja...tats y... it was fun tho..hehe at last baru lah us dengan rela hati melihat camera..actually nya dalam hati mau plang tu..tapi at first malu2 ja tu..especially c HAnna..ahakZ~ then we cerita2 with marriz n interview with Hiero..[ sesungguhnya i Terjatuh Cinta dekat camera2 itu..hehe] i Tink around 10ish omoz 11 we balik..av to send Hanna and Faiz Home 1st n then me..Home sweet Home..keke~

p/s: Special Thanx to MArriz and Hiero..hehe

here are some photo from MArriz..[ Me, HAnna n Faiz]..keke~

LAst Saturday Night with Hudz n the Gang..:P

[Kes nada kan Dibuat tat nyt]= Kja c Mona keke~

Saturday Night with The Gang

Well actually last saturday nyt was Unplanned..Hudz, MOna, Cumi n Hudz Cuzenz Check in at RizqUn Hotel..u sed to HUdz, " BAh,,if i nada kan dibuat later, ada i kacau tu"..Hudz sed, "bah.mana saja..datang tah hehe."..then tat night me n MAx ke rizqun la..reach gadong 9 ish omoz 10pm ..Hudz kirim sprite 2 bottle..pikir apa durg ani..masuk ja dalam bilik, i saw them main uNo..hehe sapa kalah, minum sprite one glass..hehe first time jumpa cumi, tungga, mamat and achoy...friendly lah them...seperti biasa i, walaupun baru biasa with them..tarus bah i nyaya..haha..

and around 11 ish mummy call, they sed they're waiting for us di dynasty for dim sum..hehe then turun from rizqun, we go straight to dynasty..duduk ja baru tarus mamam..hehe tat nyt, dynasty happening abis..vravis ramainya..normally nda plang tat ramai.keke~ [ mummy fans of dim sum] hehe done at dynasty, we went back to see Hudz n the gang..keke~ wen we reach their room, durang liat Hitman..[ boring movie nya...tak i paham..] den tukar to jumper..atleast ok la.. den u play with achoy camera..Nikon D__..m not sho wat model..hehe for sho i likeeeeee...hehe achoy tetido dah..i took pictures of em sleeping, using his camera..cheh..the camera nda mo lapas dari aku..[esen tu..or aku yg na mo lapas dari camera atu.hehe] kirakan im photographer for the nyt..ahakz..[ on the camera pun pksa vlajar..prasannya i..hehe] but no worries, practice makes better...hehe but soon,,i myt get those camera..hehe [ i hint plang sudah for bday gift] hehe

i tink around 3 ish (am) we chow from rizqun...coz tat time tinggal mamat n huds is still awake..hehe n i reach hom at 4 am... n ZzZzZz above are the pictures taken time lepak'ings with them..

Hangout and having Fun....(^^,)

well yesterday i didn't plan to go out anywhere. Then shamyza n hanna on9 with me...biasalah us, jumpa dah begila, apalagi MSN..though na nampak muka diorang..keke~we actually plan kan menarik... then na jadi..hangout aja la kami..hehe shamyza wanna go to Kianggeh, Simply Shaz... coz she kan rasa the foods....i try to contact faiz, but i cant reach em..them befikir lah..how to contact em..i try to call both of his line pun still the same..

atlast tepaksa oso lah i langgar umah c Faiz..wen we sampai konon nya i kuar n knock the door..skali gues wat, c faiz yg buka pintu..then there goes our conversation,

Dieja: bah laju jalan..

Faiz: ah..kan kemana?

Dieja: hm, menarik..bah lakas, coz hanna n shamyza menunggu dah ni..

Faiz: cana bleh ko janji sama durg..?

Dieja: On9...?

Faiz: Malaz ku..aku balum ready n alum g mandi..beminyak kan muka ku..

Dieja: aku sama jua kali..simple aje...hehe

Faiz: Bah, tngu japs..aku bersiram dulu...

fuh at last, faiz sed skajap lah...but i tunggu ya mandi..ya ain lamanya..kalah wah puteri mandi..cheh..hehe then keluar lah c faiz dari umah nya n bawa kasut2 nya ke kereta..i mean kasutnya keke~ kononnya we kan withdraw $$$ coz tat time i only av $3 dalam my wallet~sigh~ n our destination betambah lah lagi before ke simply shaz..sinz ia otw to kianggeh, we stop by at Chunghwa for baiduri ATM..sadly the atm is no longer available..gosh, which means i av to go sumwer else to withdraw..and the closest is yayasan..

well as you all know payah sikit la....wer we have to make a big round disana.. coz if kan parking pun, skajap jua saja.. me n faiz kuar lah..n kononnya kan check our allowance tarus whether kuar or nda.. ~sigh~ [alum lagi keluar our allowance] hehe

atlast baru lah we ol sampai ke simply shaz..n wen we arrived shamyza n her fiancee & Hanna baru siap makan..we kononnya exhausted dari awal coz banyak singgah pun order lah makanan..hehe but the hangout was fun tho..biasalah us, if jumpa with shamyza n hanna..sampai tak ingat dunia..hehe "Dunia itu aku yg punya"..hehe bising lah kami tawa2..n yg jadi mangsa kami, c Faiz hs..cian em..we nyaya em habis- habisan...walaupun ia diam..hehe

Dzen bro sham ngusut kn balik..hehe [marah ni krg c shamyza]..so hanna & shamyza pun chow lah..as for us masih lagi disana awyl..then we went to ripas...lawat my nenek..lama oso us there, then around 10ish we jalan ke TK gadong..unluckily the gang was not there..so we change plan n confirmlah menarik d mamih beribi..lamalah us there..like until 1 ish wa..(^^,) then balik umah lh coz aher dah.. wen i reach hom, i mandi subuh..keke~ [ ngam kah tu?] hehe then switch on lappy..

tarus on9 kan i..hehe i 0n9 with someone..it was fun sampai til we din notice it was late...like extremely late..keke~ macam majal kan na mo tido..hehe then the end..ZzZzZzZzZ

Am I in Love?Are U in Love?

Hm, will be discussing about this matter..how can you actually tell that you're in LOVE?..Frankly speaking, it is a really hard question to answer..but yeah, we're just discussing about it ryt? Typical scenario happen in Love. Some people may fall in and out of Love quickly and some people may think its hard while some others are never really in Love as much as they desire at the first place. But yeah, u all know that different people have different perception about Love.

But surely, it can get confusing when we are still a teen because romantic love is somewhat a new concept for teens and we don't know what to expect. basically at first, teens are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures..(cinta baru lah katakan ;p).. Trust me..it is!! HEe anyway, What do u think Love is? why do u want a romantic relationship? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? Why do you guys break up? Y?Y?Y? These questions can't be easily answered.

hm..well it maybe because of The love feeling.."LUST"...it is a very powerful, very intense feeling of attraction to another person. Usually we lust after people that we don't really know ans still we feel comfortable fantasizing about it. it is really common for people to get confuse..but why? why the feeling and Love make people so easy to mix up? hm, Lust is about physical attraction and acting only on Physical attraction. But LOVE is about much more than that. And yet many people get confuse to an attraction for some sort of blissful love..Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that.

generally Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and also trust. When you are in love, as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Like i have mention before, love is not about jealousy, not conflict, not about testing. love has a positive feeling and if it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity, then it is not a real love but shows that it is FAKE..just a pale copy..keke~

Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow.

How can we actually tell that we are in Love?There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with below statements you are probably in love.

1. hm..u actually know because you have been told by someone in you..your significant other that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2. The object of your liking makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If/when you feel jealous it is always momentary; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel as peaceful when you and your partner are together.
5. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7. Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
8. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.

How To Love?

As you all know that Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most of us will face, though not all of us did. Love is the continual act of unconditionally putting the needs of others before your own.

Steps:-

• Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", say it with a desire to show someone that you really love them. The Important thing is that when you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.(well yea depends on what is it;p)
  
• Empathize. lets think yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than imposing your own expectations or attempt to control your partner, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are; and realize how they could also love you back just as well.
• Love unconditionally. lets make simple and straight, love them the way they are, not the way they looks.what important is what u all think of their heart.If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
• Expect nothing in return. since u all love them because if them, so be with them for the sake of love, not because you have to or their looks OR their richness. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
• Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.