Topics to be avoid on the FIRST DATE..

Here is the top 9 topics to avoid, unless you want the date to end early, with no second chance.

• NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR EX!

Well i suppose no one wants to hear all about your past relationship especially on the first date. Even though you may not realize it, it sounds like you still have a feeling or thing for them. Maybe you are still in Love with your EX? Saying bad things can also get you in Trouble. Your date perception to you would be different..Is he/she dating a mature people? Well as you all know, saying negative things about other people are Immature..so, would you want them to label you as an immature person?..Assuming you mention about your EX, your date might think or ask in their mind, " what am i to him/ her?"..isn't it true? Think as if you are in their shoes.. The best thing to do is not to bring the subject up, and if they do try to avoid by changing the conversation like.." I don't live in the past" or "I have forgotten between me and my Ex, Lets open a new book"..or anything that is suitable to change the topic.

• DO NOT TALK ABOUT ANY MEDICAL CONDITIONs

Just maybe your date could care less about you pet disease, or your brother blisters or your ulcer. In a way, it's gross and it really turns people away. But there is a time and place to talk about medical Issues, and the FIRST DATE is not one of them. If you have contagious disease or whatever that is very major you think you should tell them, then tell them before hand. If you did not tell them that you have a major disease, i am afraid that he/she accused you lied to them for not telling your condition. Plus, what is a date for? To find Partner for life..Keke~ But if it isn't contagious, why should you tell them on the first date.

• TRY NOT TO TALK ABOUT BODY PARTS

Why should you talk about body parts in your first date..isn't it weird?But for somehow, some people like to mention that they like someone that has a pretty smile. Though it is a compliment, some may think that their smile is not pretty enough or whatever..some people may also wonder how their teeth look like..hehe

• DO NOT COMPARE
  

It is a bad move to compare your date to anyone you know. You all also don't want to be compare with other people right, like their EX., Past Love perhaps?... Comparing a person to someone else sets to tone for an awkward moment of silence. Besides would you like to be compared to someones mom or dad?

• LEAVE ALL YOUR WILD PARTY MEMORIES AT HOME

Your date will be more impressed with positive accomplishments you have made...i know you would pretend to be someone..but, would you want to see him/her for another date?..that's the point..first Impression is the important part. Do you really think you'll impress them with stories of you getting drunk? Drunk stories make you look cheap, and immature.

• MARRIAGE IS NOT A GOOD SUBJECT
  

It's too early for marriage, it is just you first date. don't you guys think it's better to know them closely before talking about marriage. It's the first date! Don't talk about what your looking for, as in long term goals. I am afraid that you might scared your date away]LOL(^_^)] .Even if you think or know that they are the one you have been looking for your whole life. Keep it to yourself for now. The whole "I love you" and marriage ideas can wait a while.

• NO SEX ISSUES
  

Now is not the time to ask any sexual questions, if you want a second date. Will be a bad impression for you on your first date.

• AVOID ALL GROSS TOPICS

Anything that has to do with using the restroom, or someone getting sick, is not a turn on. You wouldn't openly pass gas on the first date, so don't talk about it either. hAha..i know its funny, Just DON't!

• DO NOT TALK ABOUT WEIGHT

Even if your date only orders a small salad, don't ask if they are on a diet, or watching their weight. Never ask any questions that has to deal with weight at all. Both men and women are sensitive about their size, and shape. Your date might be thin, but by making statements about weight or size, they might get the impression that your not physically attracted to them, or that you think their not in shape.

These are just 9 of the most common conversation topics that will ruin a good first date. You want to make a good impression that last, not a first impression that gets destroyed before the date is over.