Friday, May 23, 2008

Are You in Love???!!!


Its been dilemma for some people to know whether they are in Love or not. "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in desire. As this thing can get people confuse especially Teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for them and they don't know what to expect. overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures? They are confusing, What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with the statements you are probably in love.

  • You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
  • The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
  • If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
  • Nothing makes you feel as peaceful as when you and your partner are together.
  • When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
  • Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
  • Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
  • You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
  • He/she always in your thoughts?
If Persons are in Love, they simply can't stop thinking about the person they in Love with. No matter how hard you try but such thoughts would always conquer your mind even when you don't want them to. You would be totally driven crazy just based on these thoughts.
  • Do you care for him/her

Normally when we love someone we tend to care about them a lot? We value them even more them we value ourselves and this is what true love is all about. Are you hurt when the person you feel you might love is hurt? Do you feel or experience joy when the person you feel you might love is happy? Is the answer to these questions is yes than you most probably love that person.

  • Does his/her company comfort you?
When you are in love with someone you would always feel great comfort and joy when that person is around you. And when you are away from the same person you would experience loneliness and discomfort. It's often said that the one's we love the most comfort us at the same time hurt us the most. Therefore if even the smallest of comments from your partner hurts you a lot than you are definitely in love with that person.

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