Wednesday, May 28, 2008

What Should you do on the first Date???

You must have met someone you find very interesting. Typical question is what should you do to get to know them?So, Most people find it easy to bring that someone for a Date.


anyway, choosing an activity for a first date is an important decision.By bringing them for a Date, you hope to have someone that have things in common with you, especially if you are looking for that special someone you can spend the rest of your life with. The classic choices that still work nowadays is by bringing your date to Movies and dinners.( But it work tho)..

For instance, if you and the other person are both interested in sports, games, strolling, ETC, there is nothing wrong with attending a these kind of event together for a first date. If these matters are dear to both your hearts, it will be a welcome relief from the sometimes stressful situation of just taking in entertainment or trying to make conversation.

Well of course, that first conversation will need to take place somewhere. like restaurants, Cafe, Mall. Ask your date about themselves to choose a really hand-picked place. For instance, if you share hiking or other outdoor activities, they might enjoy a picnic in a state park followed by a short hike, rather than the traditional dinner date. Being outdoors is relaxed and refreshing. Take a look at the faces of people walking or riding bicycles. They are almost always smiling.

Things that must be note on First Date is to make that other person comfortable. If you sense that they are not happy with the environment, you can suggest some place else to go. Watch him or her for signs of discomfort and work to relieve the situation.

Dinner dates are always appropriate, but sometimes the conversation lags. If you will be visiting over dinner, think ahead about topics you'd like to discuss with your date. What specific things would you like to know about them? Ask, but don't be nosy if they seem to prefer to be private about some things.

A nice way to break the ice on a first date is to double date with another couple. If there are two other people with you, the conversation is much less likely to lag, and everyone will probably be more comfortable. Choose friends who have a stable relationship, and who like to interact with others. Don't choose friends who monopolize the conversation or who tend to fight with each other, though.

Hopefully, that date will turn out to be a really fun, interesting time of getting to know a really special, fun person. Just remember to treat them like you would want to be treated and find common ground for your relationship.

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