Topics to be avoid on the FIRST DATE..

Here is the top 9 topics to avoid, unless you want the date to end early, with no second chance.

• NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR EX!

Well i suppose no one wants to hear all about your past relationship especially on the first date. Even though you may not realize it, it sounds like you still have a feeling or thing for them. Maybe you are still in Love with your EX? Saying bad things can also get you in Trouble. Your date perception to you would be different..Is he/she dating a mature people? Well as you all know, saying negative things about other people are Immature..so, would you want them to label you as an immature person?..Assuming you mention about your EX, your date might think or ask in their mind, " what am i to him/ her?"..isn't it true? Think as if you are in their shoes.. The best thing to do is not to bring the subject up, and if they do try to avoid by changing the conversation like.." I don't live in the past" or "I have forgotten between me and my Ex, Lets open a new book"..or anything that is suitable to change the topic.

• DO NOT TALK ABOUT ANY MEDICAL CONDITIONs

Just maybe your date could care less about you pet disease, or your brother blisters or your ulcer. In a way, it's gross and it really turns people away. But there is a time and place to talk about medical Issues, and the FIRST DATE is not one of them. If you have contagious disease or whatever that is very major you think you should tell them, then tell them before hand. If you did not tell them that you have a major disease, i am afraid that he/she accused you lied to them for not telling your condition. Plus, what is a date for? To find Partner for life..Keke~ But if it isn't contagious, why should you tell them on the first date.

• TRY NOT TO TALK ABOUT BODY PARTS

Why should you talk about body parts in your first date..isn't it weird?But for somehow, some people like to mention that they like someone that has a pretty smile. Though it is a compliment, some may think that their smile is not pretty enough or whatever..some people may also wonder how their teeth look like..hehe

• DO NOT COMPARE
  

It is a bad move to compare your date to anyone you know. You all also don't want to be compare with other people right, like their EX., Past Love perhaps?... Comparing a person to someone else sets to tone for an awkward moment of silence. Besides would you like to be compared to someones mom or dad?

• LEAVE ALL YOUR WILD PARTY MEMORIES AT HOME

Your date will be more impressed with positive accomplishments you have made...i know you would pretend to be someone..but, would you want to see him/her for another date?..that's the point..first Impression is the important part. Do you really think you'll impress them with stories of you getting drunk? Drunk stories make you look cheap, and immature.

• MARRIAGE IS NOT A GOOD SUBJECT
  

It's too early for marriage, it is just you first date. don't you guys think it's better to know them closely before talking about marriage. It's the first date! Don't talk about what your looking for, as in long term goals. I am afraid that you might scared your date away]LOL(^_^)] .Even if you think or know that they are the one you have been looking for your whole life. Keep it to yourself for now. The whole "I love you" and marriage ideas can wait a while.

• NO SEX ISSUES
  

Now is not the time to ask any sexual questions, if you want a second date. Will be a bad impression for you on your first date.

• AVOID ALL GROSS TOPICS

Anything that has to do with using the restroom, or someone getting sick, is not a turn on. You wouldn't openly pass gas on the first date, so don't talk about it either. hAha..i know its funny, Just DON't!

• DO NOT TALK ABOUT WEIGHT

Even if your date only orders a small salad, don't ask if they are on a diet, or watching their weight. Never ask any questions that has to deal with weight at all. Both men and women are sensitive about their size, and shape. Your date might be thin, but by making statements about weight or size, they might get the impression that your not physically attracted to them, or that you think their not in shape.

These are just 9 of the most common conversation topics that will ruin a good first date. You want to make a good impression that last, not a first impression that gets destroyed before the date is over.

What Should you do on the first Date???

You must have met someone you find very interesting. Typical question is what should you do to get to know them?So, Most people find it easy to bring that someone for a Date.

anyway, choosing an activity for a first date is an important decision.By bringing them for a Date, you hope to have someone that have things in common with you, especially if you are looking for that special someone you can spend the rest of your life with. The classic choices that still work nowadays is by bringing your date to Movies and dinners.( But it work tho)..

For instance, if you and the other person are both interested in sports, games, strolling, ETC, there is nothing wrong with attending a these kind of event together for a first date. If these matters are dear to both your hearts, it will be a welcome relief from the sometimes stressful situation of just taking in entertainment or trying to make conversation.

Well of course, that first conversation will need to take place somewhere. like restaurants, Cafe, Mall. Ask your date about themselves to choose a really hand-picked place. For instance, if you share hiking or other outdoor activities, they might enjoy a picnic in a state park followed by a short hike, rather than the traditional dinner date. Being outdoors is relaxed and refreshing. Take a look at the faces of people walking or riding bicycles. They are almost always smiling.

Things that must be note on First Date is to make that other person comfortable. If you sense that they are not happy with the environment, you can suggest some place else to go. Watch him or her for signs of discomfort and work to relieve the situation.

Dinner dates are always appropriate, but sometimes the conversation lags. If you will be visiting over dinner, think ahead about topics you'd like to discuss with your date. What specific things would you like to know about them? Ask, but don't be nosy if they seem to prefer to be private about some things.

A nice way to break the ice on a first date is to double date with another couple. If there are two other people with you, the conversation is much less likely to lag, and everyone will probably be more comfortable. Choose friends who have a stable relationship, and who like to interact with others. Don't choose friends who monopolize the conversation or who tend to fight with each other, though.

Hopefully, that date will turn out to be a really fun, interesting time of getting to know a really special, fun person. Just remember to treat them like you would want to be treated and find common ground for your relationship.

Love is not abuse, Abuse is not Love!

Love is not abuse and abuse is not love.. what do you all understand about that??..confuse..?..

Lets discuss about this matter...and from what i'm going to say below, u can actually compared on what is love and what is Abuse..Below are the characteristic of Healthy and Abusive Relationship.

DECISION MAKING
As we all know, that couple make decision together or in other word, "Joint Decision Making".In addition, Couples was suppose to share their responsibilities(the ups and down in life) coz that was they meant to be...To think that, y do people get married? I suppose it ring a bell in you right....(^_^).

Compare to this situation, One of the partner dominate everything include the decision making. Basically the Abuser decides in which it shows that only one sided decision making. To be exact, everything must be follow by his/ her own rule, the other did not get a chance to decide.

ECONOMIC EQUALITY
In healthy relationship, both partner have freedom to decide in issues of work, school and money or any other things you all prefer.They are free to find what job they like, spent their money as they like, etc. As for Abusive relationship, one of the partner deny job freedom. In other words, boyfriend/girlfriend did not want their partner to work in this some particular organization. adding up, their money also been control by the partner.

EMOTIONAL HONESTY
In healthy relationship, the partners feel safe to admit and share fears/ insecurities together. Oppositely, the boyfriend/ girlfriend manipulate the emotion. What I mean by this is, in use of jealousy, passion, stress and frustration to justify actions. commonly happen around us, one of the partner got carried away. They are not in the mood, but their partner get scolded or get a silent treatment from them..how unfair right...hehe tho sometime i did that to my Love one..(^_^)

RESPECT
In healthy relationship, partners Accept that “no” means no. In addition, couples also Respect right to differing feelings, friends and activities; also support their partner's goal or objective.

But abusive relationship, intimidate. Force partner to do things against her/his will. Can say that They are charming in Public, but menacing in private. When they are stress or what, they destroy property or hit their pets. In other words, they make light of abuse and they are just to sensitive.

PHYSICAL SAFETY
A good relationship, the partners respect partner’s physical space and also express their self non- violently.

But in abusive relationship, one of the partner abuse their mate physically for example, Hit, choke, kick, pinch,pull hair, poke, twist arms, trip, bite, restrain,use weapons, ETC.

SUPPORT and TRUST
A good relationship, the partners listen and understand carefully and both of them value their partner's opinion. Different from abusive relationship, the boyfriend/ girlfriend control their partners. They isolate their partners from his/ her family or something like mind games..(^_^)

Is it Love or Not???

Have you ever think and ask about your relationship? Is it love or not..

or is it just for fun?TEN QUESTIONS TO ASK ABOUT
YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. What I you want from this relationship?
2. Have I told him/her what is important to me in a relationship?
3. Does he/she tell me what is important to him/her in a relationship?
4. Am I happy with the way things are?
5. What type of changes would make it better?
6. Can we talk about touching?
7. Do I feel good about the touching we do?
8. Am I feeling pressured or am I pressuring?
9. How does the relationship affect other things or people in my life?
10 Who can I talk to when things get tough?

IF IT IS MATURE LOVE, THEN IT GOES THESE DEFINITIONS:

• both are individuals apart from the other
• each accepts the fact that neither is perfect
• the relationship is strong in tough times as well as happy times
• the love gives each person energy to devote to all aspects of life
• the two people are close friends
• each person continues to grow as an independent human being
• there is joy in giving as well as receiving
• there is honesty and trust between the two people
• each feels a responsibility to the others well being

THEN INFATUATION IS NOT LOVE, So.....

• the person depends on the relation for self esteem
• the person takes more from the relationship than they give
• each is jealous of the others separate activities
• the relationship drains the person of energy
• the person is afraid that the other person will lose interest in them
• the person can only think of the other person

Source:www.faqs.org

How to Be RomanTic??

Though romance may not be definable, there are still some hard fast rules. Below are the documented atomic elements of romance. Mix these ingredients up, and you've got it.

• Intrinsic Romance

  Some things are inherently romantic, like hearts. This is very useful, because you can pile things upon the object of your affections and win romance points without expending any additional effort or thought. The trick is to figure out what is romantic and what is not. There is a basic rule of thumb to follow: if it's cool, it's not romantic. For example, high powered rifles are not romantic. Science fiction is not romantic. DVD players are not romantic unless they're playing Sleepless In Seattle.

  But a whole ton of things are intrinsically romantic, and you should use them to your advantage.

  • Cute Things

    Teddy bears are romantic. Cherubic baby archers are romantic. Those photographs where two little kids exhibit an unnatural affection for each other and only the roses are in color are romantic.

    Taking advantage of the intrinsic romance in cute things obviously depends upon recognizing which things are cute. The rule is simple. Small things are cute. If you see a food product in a grocery store that comes in a smaller package than usual, get it, because there's a very good chance it's cute. The same goes for travel size shampoo, toothpaste, and so on. Find a store that sells doll house stuff, and your supply of cute things can be limitless.

  • Low Light

    Candles are romantic. Sunrises and sunsets are romantic. Any kind of low light, you see, is romantic, hence why dinner dates after dark are more romantic than lunch dates at noon. Combine low light sources, and it stands to reason that the air of romance will be so thick, your beloved will be blind to anything else but the radiance of her shimmering knight in armor. Open the curtains on a sunset and light some candles, and you might even be able to get away with watching a football game during dinner.

  • Red

    Red is romantic, because red is the color of love and passion. Consider roses. Red roses mean, "I love you." Yellow roses mean, "Let's just be friends," which is synonymous with, "You are irritating, and I hate you." So you do not want to be wrong. Get her red roses, red ribbons, red balloons, red teddy bears, red puppies, and red tickets to the World Series, and she'll fall hopelessly under your spell.

  • Background Music

    Background music is romantic, and note the word "background," because not just any music is romantic. For music to be romantic, it must be too soft to hear. Also, it may not be lively or funny or good. Elevator music is the most romantic genre of music out there.

  • Chocolates

    Chocolates are not only romantic, they're complimentary. When you give a box of chocolates to your beloved, it says, "You could pig out on this tub of lard and bloat out to three tons, but you'd still be the apple of my eye." It doesn't matter if it's true -- it's the message that counts. But the real reason to give your loved one chocolates is because any loved one worth her salt will turn right around and offer you some. It's a win-win no matter how you look at it. Buy her a red one shaped like a heart, and you're in like Flynn.

  • Fancy Curly Things

    Flair and flourishes are romantic. Whenever you get her a greeting card, get one of the ones with all the curly pink scribbles on it. When you write her letters, make the tails of the 'g's and 'y's really long and the loops in the 'd's and 'b's and 'p's really big. That's way romantic. Notice how romantic the title banner at the top of this page is? The 'R' is particularly romantic, because it's red.

  • The Most Intrinsically Romantic Thing Ever

    Based on the data above, the single most romantic thing in the universe can be calculated scientifically. It is, simply, a small red candle made out of chocolate and shaped like a teddy bear holding a heart with scribbles all over it that plays a tune when you wind it up. Toss her one of these at sunset on your way to a frat party, and you'll be able to stay out all night and still strengthen your relationship.

• Impracticality

  Practical things are not romantic. Why do you think blenders and toaster ovens are so notoriously unromantic? Because they have an alternative use, of course. But get her a poofy thing that sits on her dresser behind her jewelry box, never to be touched or moved again, and she'll melt in your arms.

• Personal Stuff

  Romance is personal. To be romantic, you must be personal and do personal kind of things. It's sort of romantic to buy a mooshy greeting card for your loved one, but to be really romantic, you should sign it. As far as birthday presents and so forth go, you can make the gift personal by carefully considering your beloved's interests and choosing a gift uniquely suited to her personality. Flowers always works.

• Your Time

  One of the required ingredients of romance is your time. Nope, there's no way out of it.

• Blindness

  An important part of romance is selective blindness. You must not acknowledge anything about your beloved that could possibly be construed as a fault. If a nightmare suddenly woke her up from a twenty minute nap after four straight days of not sleeping at all, don't even say she looks "tired." If "radiant" isn't the least of your comments about her appearance, you're sunk. If she's rude to someone without cause, prattle on about how much nerve that other person had for being such a big fat jerk. If she spilled pizza sauce on her chin, don't say a word, nor give any other indication that her complexion is amiss. Paradoxically, if she gets home, looks in the mirror, and finds it still there, she'll hate you for not telling her, so you'd better find a surreptitious way of removing it without her ever noticing -- and afterward, keep that stray globule of pizza sauce your best kept secret to the day you die.

• Remembering Birthdays and Anniversaries

  Remembering your beloved's birthday and your anniversary isn't so much romantic as it is a stay of execution, for surely you'll forget someday, and when you do, you'll find out how not romantic cold shoulders and tears are. Your safest bet is to find someone whose birthday is on Christmas, then marry her on New Year's Day, because nobody forgets those days.

• Pet Names

  To be romantic, you have to call each other names carefully crafted to make yourself and everyone around you throw up. This romance technique doubles as a passion meter way more accurate than those quarter eating machines in arcades; if you use these pet names and don't throw up, you're genuinely in love.

  Here's how to construct your own pet name. Mix up the syllables "pook," "wee," "hon," "oop," and "ums," (never use the syllables "skuzz" or "elch"), rhyme a lot, and make liberal references to baked goods. For example, (WARNING! WARNING! TURN YOUR FACE AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER!), "Sweetie Pumpkin Pookums" is a perfectly acceptable and effective pet name, as are "Moopsie Cutie," "Hunny Wunny Cakes," and, for the extravagant, "Snookie Wookum Weetie Bunny Pie." (It may seem odd to novices that cooked rodents would be romantic, but they are.) For best results, speak these pet names with a big dumb grin, an admiring gaze, and a high-pitched squeal, and follow it up with an exaggerated sigh of dreamy contentment. The most important thing to remember about this is never ever do this in front of me.

• Style

  Even if you get all the essentials of romance right, a lack of style could still foul you up. Try to be as "suave" and "debonair" as you possibly can, as this is the optimum romantic style. Be as much like James Bond as you can, except for the infidelity, compulsive gambling, chain smoking, and killing people parts. Be elegant, humble, refined, independent, thoughtful, responsible, compassionate, spontaneous, reputable, graceful, polite, literate, entertaining, discreet, funny, upstanding, sensitive, fun, sophisticated, pleasant, selfless, reverent, and genuine. And if you can't, fake it. And don't overdo it. Subtlety is essential. If she doesn't notice, you can always find an opportune moment to work a whispered pointer into the conversation, such as, "Notice how elegant, humble, refined, independent, thoughtful, responsible, compassionate, spontaneous, reputable, graceful, polite, literate, entertaining, discreet, funny, upstanding, sensitive, fun, sophisticated, pleasant, selfless, reverent, and genuine I am."

  Better yet, follow the old adage, "Show, don't tell," and demonstrate these admirable attributes, each in turn, so she'll be sure to take notice. Wear a tuxedo, bow to the object of your affections, kiss her hand, and say, "Why did the chicken cross the road? But seriously, you are looking beautiful today, and may I suggest we adjourn and spontaneously give thanks to God while I empathize with your inner woman in private, if indeed you'd consent to receive the fervent attentions of my lowly self? And afterward, we could go to Disneyworlds.

• Source:www.rinkworks.com

Are You in Love???!!!

Its been dilemma for some people to know whether they are in Love or not. "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in desire. As this thing can get people confuse especially Teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for them and they don't know what to expect. overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures? They are confusing, What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with the statements you are probably in love.

• You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
• The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
• If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
• Nothing makes you feel as peaceful as when you and your partner are together.
• When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
• Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
• Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
• You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
• He/she always in your thoughts?

If Persons are in Love, they simply can't stop thinking about the person they in Love with. No matter how hard you try but such thoughts would always conquer your mind even when you don't want them to. You would be totally driven crazy just based on these thoughts.

• Do you care for him/her

Normally when we love someone we tend to care about them a lot? We value them even more them we value ourselves and this is what true love is all about. Are you hurt when the person you feel you might love is hurt? Do you feel or experience joy when the person you feel you might love is happy? Is the answer to these questions is yes than you most probably love that person.

• Does his/her company comfort you?

When you are in love with someone you would always feel great comfort and joy when that person is around you. And when you are away from the same person you would experience loneliness and discomfort. It's often said that the one's we love the most comfort us at the same time hurt us the most. Therefore if even the smallest of comments from your partner hurts you a lot than you are definitely in love with that person.

Why DO People CHEAT in a relationship??

It is interesting to know the reason why would a boyfriend or girlfriend cheat their partners?? or probably the major reason why most marriages and relationship end with an eventual breakup. anyway, the thing i wanted to highlight here is WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT in their RELATIONSHIP?? What makes them go this way even when everything seems fine. It could be because of:

• No spice in the relationship

often the relationship takes off in a very healthy happy note but with time the passion seems to die and there is nothing much left when it comes to the element of adventure in the relationship. Under the situation several people out there wander out in the quest to find some adventure and always end up cheating on their partners. Or in other words no Romantic words in the their dictionaty.

• A lot of unresolved issues
  

why people cheat to their partners is due to the fight and arguments involved. in addition, the argument did not result with positive consequence due to which one or both of the partners remain emotionally unsatisfied and unhappy.Therefore they go out and find the element of happiness with someone else.

• Difference in needs and wants

It is often said that opposites attract but in the case of relationships with the needs of the wants have to be the same otherwise there will always be conflict and dispute in the relationship. Having different needs and wants leaves one or both of the partners unsatisfied which often results in cheating.

• Disagreements on many issues

This is one of the major reasons why several people out there end up cheating on their partners. You see a lot of couples argue on a constant basis which often leads to a heated atmosphere without a common solution. If this continues for a long duration one of the partner seeks freedom and wanders out to find someone else and ends up cheating.

• Habit of cheating

Some people just have this strange habit of cheating. No matter what they find it extremely hard to control themselves when it comes to such issues. It is always recommended to check a person's past relationship before getting into a long term relationship with him or her.

WHY do you need to forget your EX???

Most people take long time to forget they ex after they have been dumped or they break up for some reason. Some may take months and other never get to recover...n WHY do u need to FORGET ex and here are five reasons why you need to forget all that.

Mental heath.

Most people think that mental heath is for those who have mental disability, but on other hand It is like saying to have auto insurance is only good during in wintertime. Keep thinking about your ex when he/she is out of your life is to keep distracting your mind. Contrary to popular belief, one negative thought in your mind can destruct almost every other thing in your life. Your mind will be overwhelmed with so many thoughts that will reduce your mental capability.

Productivity.

Imagine your computer hard drive to be full of virus; will it perform its task well? I don't think so. Keep thinking of your past relationships all the time will put more VIRUS in your brain and it will not be able produce better result. The ability to do your work properly will be reduced.

Bad motivation strategy

There are two kind of motivation strategy, moving toward to and moving away from. Most successful people are motivated by the former, keep thinking about your ex is a bad motivation strategy it make you reinforcing bad memories and accumulating them in your mind. Instead, think about how you are going to make a good relationship and go for it.

Reducing your chances to get a new love

Like I said earlier, keeping thinking about past bad relationships will produce unhealthy mind .One thing that you need to understand is this we attract what we believe we can have. These beliefs are produced by our thoughts. Negative thoughts like thinking about your ex will not attract good experience in the future like to meet a new lover. Start to thing about your new relationship.

To be happy

Every time you have a good thought, your brain secrete chemicals know as Serotonin. The reactions of these chemicals produce state of mind. I'll give you a little exercise to prove this concept. Relax and think of the last time you had a lot of fun. Remember every thing you did. If it was watching a movie, a comedy show or meeting your friends just any experience you can remember. Imagine it for about two minutes. Think of another experience that made you feel happy, do the same and enjoy it.

Are you feeling different?

Of course you are. You see our mind is very useful tool for us to not only to control our metabolism or remembering thing but we can use it to change how we feel. By thinking about our good experiences we force our brain to secrete chemicals that will produce good feelings, hence be happy.

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Happy birthday to My Best Buddy!!

Last night we have this birthday surprise thingie... Well the Birthday Boy..ops...salah, Birthday Guy did not expect the suprise thingie to happen, its our hangout day anyway hehe ...its kinda fun tho...

To andeh:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ANDY!!!..Good Luck in everything you do & may u have a blasting year..(^+^).."Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday to you..Happy Birthday to Andeh, Happy Birthday to you...."

its belated by the way, n the actual date of his birthday was on 21st of May 08...

The surprise start with a singing and a small cake, or is it a Muffin with a candle on it in which the picture of it will be updated soon... tunggu ambil the picture from one of my friend...keke~ then after 2o mins later, the surprise continue with singing and a CAKE!!..i mean normal big round cake..haha n u guys shud see his face that tym, he was really terkezut ish..;p

This picture was taken at the end of gathering..i think..or shud i say almost end of the gathering..hehe so we were like playing around with the candle ( p/s: cake c andeh tapau dah).. haha

anyway, had a good nyt last nite..

Note: will update the Pic soon

How Can we actually Forget Someone?

This topic has come up a few times in conversation with our friends and relatives. How can we forget someone or best describe as our Long lost lost Love..hehe (Ex's).. Gosh why am i talking about all of this stuff...okay, anyway... how can we let someone go... and solution seemed so simple, its just that how are we going to practice it..

By the way, whenever people break up with anyone they tend to ONLY remember the good part, the good times, Good and Happy Moments with him/her... all the fun things they did together.. the nice memories... and whatsoever.... AND by remembering this will make you all depressed as you will continue questioning yourself.. you will ask "why did u break up with him/her", "where did it all went wrong" and more whys..and why and why...

So when this happen to anyone out there,NEVER just remember the good and nice part of your relationship.. try to remember the bad part... the part where everything went wrong.. all the hurt and pain that you got in the relationship.... the part where bad thing happens as if you were on a collision course...everything bad that u have gone through with him/ her..

Trust me...That's how you can forget People or to be exact your "EX", and that is how you recover from them. Seed a little hatred and let it remind you of all that.. never too much hatred, as it will make you a nasty person. Whenever you miss them, and sorta want em' back, always remember the hurt they gave you.. it may turn you into a cold hearted person but at least you feel stronger.. empowered to control your life.

Do you have these symptoms?

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Do you have these Symptoms?????

• Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
• Loss of appetite
• Overdo eating for comfort
• Calling or Try to call your ex several times a day
• Text messaging and emailing constantly or wanted to?
  
• Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
• Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
• Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
• Feeling extremely depressed
• Feeling urges to spy on them
• Thinking where would he/she be at this time
• Would he/she think about me
  
• Continuously rehearsing what you should have said
• Continuously rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, you think what will happen?.. so y do you think you have this kind of symptoms...from my point of view, this symptoms happens because you wouldn't want OR not ready to let it go...i Know how it feel, so learn to let the past get away from you..I understand what you have gone through, someone who has been in your life that long..and possibly changed your life will not be easily forget.in order to not to think bout him/her, try to do some chores or have fun with your friend/ colleagues Like:-

1. Get into new activities with friends to keep your mind off of him/her.(e.g Sports, hang out at Coffee bean/Zone or Chills or anywhere u think its Cool HeE)
   
2. Don't be eager to talk to him.
3. Don't stalk him or his girlfriend or become a crazy EX.(^_^)
4. Act like you could care less about him or his girlfriend.
5. Most importantly,MOVE ON with your life...Even though it is hard and tough,but do it for the sake of yourself.
   

So yea, GoodLuck!!..

The Best Moments In Life

What could be your best moment in Life??have u guys think about it..??have u guys try to list it down??(^_^) ok then, Let Look at the lists..hehe

1. Falling in love.
2. Laughing till your stomach hurts.
3. Enjoying a ride down the country side.
4. Listening to your favorite song on the radio.
5. Going to sleep listening to the rain pouring outside.
6. Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy towel.
7. Passing your final exams with good grades.
8. Being part of an interesting conversation.
9. Finding some money in some old pants.
10. Laughing at yourself.
11. Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends.
12. Laughing without a reason.
13. "Accidentally" hearing someone say somthing good about you.
14. Watching the sunset.
15. Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in your life.
16. Receiving or giving your first kiss.
17. Feeling this movement in your body when seeing this "special" someone.
18. Having a great time with your friends. 19. Seeing the one you love happy.
20. Wearing the shirt of a person you love and smelling his/her perfume.
21. Visiting an old friend of yours and remembering great memories.
22. Hearing some telling you "I LOVE YOU"

Please feel free to comment if there is any suggestion o netin that u guys wanna add up..hehe

What Is Love??

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some “Love is friendship set on fire” for others “Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it”. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe.

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned.

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Magazine...??

Create from : MagMyPic-Fake Magazine..

This magazine Publish on February and the couple won an awards...hm....in what way?? hm the sweet and Lovely couple..keke~ cheh..prasan bah aku ah(^_^)..well i actually got nutin' good to do,so i search around for the blog widget then..hehe

I wuz Just trying those application..so what do ya all tink..??kewL Pic huh...hehe~ with the magazine cover n whatsoever...hehe

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Friendship gift...!!

since my blog has just started, i would like to dedicate this Poem to all people out there..and to all my Friends, this is a small gift for you all...hope you guys like it..

You are friendly, kind and caring
Sensitive, loyal and understanding
Humorous, fun, secure and true
Always there... yes that's you.

Special, accepting, exciting and wise
Truthful and helpful, with honest blue eyes
Confiding, forgiving, cheerful and bright
Yes that's you... not one bit of spite.

You're one of a kind, different from others
Generous, charming, but not one that smothers
Optimistic, thoughtful, happy and game
But not just another... in the long chain.

Appreciative, warm and precious like gold
Our friendship won't tarnish or ever grow old
You'll always be there, I know that is true
I'll always be here... always for you.

Albert Einstein Facts

Einstein declined the presidency of the state of Israel when it was offered to him in 1952 by state leaders. The element einsteinium, discovered in 1952, was named in honor of Albert Einstein. Picture of Einstein sticking his tongue was taken on his 72nd birthday by annoying press photographer Arthur Sasse. Albert loved the photo so much that he cut his image out and send it to all his friends.

Poem- Love is priceless

To be honest, i din write tiz poem like others did...i just copy an paste it here n order to share the poem with all of you..anyway. the poem is titled as "Love is Priceless"


To have your touch and to hear your voice,
Is something we will never get back.
The memories we made together,
Will never be forgotten.
Thinking about you everyday,
To never forget what we had.
What we had was special,
No one could ever replace you.
The laughs, tears, and the Love.
Are all just memories now.
Your face just a memory,
The pain always with us.
The tears we cry everyday,
Cause us to never forget you.
You were so precious,
And he took you away so fast.
The love we shared,
Was priceless.